Life is like a box of Chocolate!

Today I came early at work cause I want to escape the issues/problems I’m having back home, so I decide to go to church and confide to my "Bestfriend J". And Suddendly a line from a movie came into my mind "Life is like a box of chocolate, you’ll never know what you ganna get." "most of the times you just have to make the most of what life brings you."

Kahit gaano natin pagsikapan mapabuti ang lahat sa buhay natin at sa buhay ng mga minamahal natin sa buhay, di pa rin maiiwasan na magkaroon ng aberya… Shocks I don’t even know what I’m talking about gusto ko lang mailabas ang nasasa loob ko ang sakit sakit ng katawan ko at tinatrangkaso ako not to memtion I have to go to work and  Im so so low right know, wala naman ako mapagsabihan…

*Sigh* :(

Scars

Thank you Ate Weng for your emails, they never fails to give encouragement when I need it the most! 
Some years ago on a hot summer day in south Florida a little boy decided to
go for a swim in the old swimming hole behind his house.

In a hurry to dive into the cool water, he ran out the back door, leaving
behind shoes, socks, and shirt as he went. He flew into the water, not
realizing that as he swam toward the middle of the lake, an alligator was
swimming toward the shore.

His mother, in the house was looking out the window, saw the two as they got
closer and closer together. In utter fear, she ran toward the water, yelling
to her son as loudly as she could. Hearing her voice, the little boy became
alarmed and made a U-turn to swim to his mother.

It was too late. Just as he reached her, the alligator reached him. >From
the dock, the mother grabbed her little boy by the arms just as the
alligator snatched his legs. That began an incredible tug-of-war between the
two.

The alligator was much stronger than the mother, but the mother was much too
passionate to let go.

A farmer happened to drive by, heard her screams, raced from his truck, took
aim and shot the alligator.

Remarkably, after weeks and weeks in the hospital, the little boy survived.

His legs were extremely scarred by the vicious attack of the animal. And, on
his arms, were deep scratches where his mother’s fingernails dug into his
flesh in her effort to hang on to the son she loved.

The newspaper reporter who interviewed the boy after the trauma, asked if he
would show him his scars. The boy lifted his pant legs. And then, with
obvious pride, he said to the reporter, "But look at my arms. I have great
scars on my arms, too. I have them because my mom wouldn’t let go."

You and I can identify with that little boy. We have scars, too. No, not
from an alligator, or anything quite so dramatic. But, the scars of a
painful past. Some of those scars are unsightly and have caused us deep
regret.

But, some wounds, my friend, are because God has refused to let go.

In the midst of your struggle, He’s been there holding on to you. The
Scripture teaches that God loves you. If you have Christ in your life, you
have become a child of God. He wants to protect you and provide for you in
every way.

But sometimes we foolishly wade into dangerous situations. The swimming hole
of life is filled with peril - and we forget that the enemy is waiting to
attack. That’s when the tug-o-war begins, and if you have the scars of His
love on your arms be very, very grateful.

He did not - and will not - let you go. Time is a very precious gift of God;
so precious that it’s only given to us moment by moment.

Are you ready for a new relationship!?

Most of us are scared to commit to a person after a failed relationship, there are fears of getting hurt again, I meet this incredibly interesting and intelligent person whom I wouldn’t mention the name. But I am so scared to commit my self, it’s just 3 months ago when I broke up with my ex or should I say "my ex broke-up with me" and usually it takes me years to get over a failed relationship. I know I already moved on but still I don’t know the reason why I can’t commit to this person and so I tried reading some articles about moving on and recovering from a break-up…

Please read on… It might help you too…

Chris

Are you ready for a new relationship!?

Many people find themselves like fish out of water after a break-up. They are interested in meeting new people and getting back into the "dating scene," but just don’t know where to start. How do you begin life again as a single person who would like to be in a relationship without making the same mistakes twice? The most direct route to a healthy relationship is to be healthy yourself. Before you even start considering dating, consider taking care of yourself. Make sure you’ve done your grieving for your failed relationship and then taken the time to build up your self-esteem. Looking for love will be futile if you’re out there looking for someone to make you feel better about yourself and who you are. Take time to get to know yourself first. Figure out what you love and what you hate. Try doing some new things, making new friends, signing up for a class or volunteering. Pick out a new book, get a fashion consultation, take a trip somewhere you always wanted to go. Once you’re ready to start meeting new prospectives, move slowly and trust your judgement. If someone seems odd to you, don’t bother trying to find out if it’s true. If someone seems wonderful, take a few dates and a little detective-work to see if everything adds up. Try not to take things too seriously — just get out there and enjoy yourself!

by Deb Levine

Give people what they want

Give people what they want

Success, money, power and accomplishment come from giving people what they want. The best way to get what you want, is to find a way to provide others with what they want.
Your work, your business, your conversations, your relationships are powerful, fulfilling and effective to the degree that you supply people with what they want.

As simple as this sounds, it is ignored by the vast majority of people. The road to success is not crowded. Because while most are looking for ways to take, the truly successful people are finding ways to give. With a giving attitude, every situation is an opportunity for success.

The possibilities are unlimited, when you set out to create value for others.

Give people what they want, and you’ll get all you could ever desire.

– Ralph Marston

StressssssS!

Well I’ve been trought alot of rought times lately and I forgot to take care of my self, depression, pressure from work, pressure on all the bills I have to pay, failed relationship. All of those got the best of me maybe thats why I got sick, but I was inspired by this email that I got from one of my dearest from Ate Weng! Hope it will help you too, on how to live your life from day to day! God Bless to All!

36 CHRISTIAN WAYS TO REDUCE STRESS

An Angel says, "Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn’t happen, you have worried in vain. Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice."

1. Pray
2. Go to bed on time.
3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed.
4. Say No to projects that won’t fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental health.
5. Delegate tasks to capable others.
6. Simplify and unclutter your life.
7. Less is more. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)
8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.
9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects overtime; don’t lump the hard things all together.
10. Take one day at a time.
11. Separate worries from concerns. If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you do and let go of the anxiety. If you can’t do anything about a situation, forget it.
12. Live within your budget; don’t use credit cards for ordinary purchases.
13. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc.
14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut). This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.
15. Do something for the Kid in You everyday.
16. Cary a Bible with you to read while waiting in line.
17. Get enough rest.
18. Eat right.
19. Get organized so everything has its place.
20. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life.
21. Write down thoughts and inspirations.
22. Every day, find time to be alone.
23. Having problems? Talk to God on the spot. Try to nip small problems in the bud. Don’t wait until it’s time to go to bed to try and pray.
24. Make friends with Godly people.
25. Keep a folder of favorite scriptures on hand.
26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good "Thank you, Jesus."
27. Laugh.
28. Laugh some more!
29. Take your work seriously, but not yourself at all.
30. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can).
31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most.)
32. Sit on your ego.
33. Talk less; listen more.
34. Slow down.
35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe
36 . Every night before bed, think of one thing you’re grateful for that you’ve never been grateful for before. GOD HAS A WAY OF TURNING THINGS AROUND FOR YOU. "If God is for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31)

Love Lost!

"Not so long ago, I once cared for someone so much. I cared for that person to the extent that I forgot who I am, what I want and what my real priorities are. I felt like I was being molded by him into someone who I am not, and I let him do that to me just to please him in front of his families and friends. I even spent beyond my budget just to empress that person with something every time we meet, every monthsary and every time I go to their house or office. I would even borrow money to my parents, friends or to my officemates just to see and be with that person. I turned down a promotion, a chance to have a higher salary and the opportunity to have and build new life in Makati so that we wouldn’t be far from each other. I made my self-available every time he & his friends wants me to go with them to their night outs. I turn down a suitor who offered to support my tuition fees in Ateneo, just to be/prove that I was loyal to him and to our relationship. I practically did everything for that person only for one reason and that is, I love him so much. I was content and happy (“I thought I was”) with the set-up until one day he told me that he does not love me anymore. I was caught off guard, I did not know what to say, do of even what to feel I was numb for a minute or two. Tears fell from my eyes and all I did was to cry while watching him leave.

   

   

I thought I was happy with that situation, I guess I was just too desperate to let everybody know that I was happy, that I was being loved and that I was in a relationship. That truth is I’m much happier now than I was with my Ex, now I can do what I really want to do like go to a movie house, stay up later watch 5 DVD’s in a row, buy my self something that makes me feel light/ happy. I just wish I can say that it was all worth it"

   

(this story is a confession of a close friend and I decided to make an entry on my blog out of it, consider it as a pilot topic! "Love Lost")

         

It’s true when they say that love is not blind but makes you the dumbest person in world no matter what degree you attained in college or what station you are in life you will be fooled by someone who pretentiously loves you, but dont think that it was just another "love lost" experience because its a stage in life where you’ll learn a lot of things and it will help you be strong and be better person. Cry if you must but do not over do it, cry because you were hurt do not cry over the person because his/shes not worth a tears. Love like you’ve never been hurt!

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